Strange Machines

According to Wolf, the wool is much cooler and the BumGenius, covered with PUL, is about the same as a disposable. A touch test with the kids here with our hot and humid tropical weather reaffirms this. Kitten’s bottom is dry when wearing wool but sweaty when wearing her BumGenius.

In principle, the naturalbluecloud wool shortie was supposed to be the solution to all the leaking problems but really, I had ordered a size too big after the other wool covers appeared to have shrunk a little from washing.

I’d ordered L but my skinny boy was swimming in the waist, although the legs were sort of fine. They gently enveloped his leg rather than clasped it with a vise-like grip.

So after 2 days of leaks, first from the waist – my solution: tuck the wool into his waist – then from the legs (where he firmly insisted it leaked although I felt nothing, but there was drippage down from the leg side when I felt about) – I had used the XL Loveybums instead of the L that night.

Tonight, we tried on Twig & Vine’s exquisitely soft bamboo fleece diaper (definitely the best I’ve ever used on the kids) in L, in between the fleece a brandless hemp insert from Whoopeekiddies, on top of that, a L Loveybums organic cloth diaper with another hemp insert, an XL Loveybums wool cover over and a naturalbluecloud wool shortie over that.

hemp insert in bamboo diaper -> hemp insert over cotton diaper -> wool cover -> wool shortie

Overload! At 3am Wolf woke and told me he’d leaked. Same leak, just down the inside of his pant leg, and thankfully nothing on the bed. I checked the multiple layers and only the first layer of hemp had been mildly soaked and a bit of the side of the Loveybums diaper. It was only one pee.

So I realised my mistake. I should have concentrated on TIGHT, not THICK. I took out the wet hemp insert, removed the dry one too. Used a fresh bamboo insert inside the Twig & Vine bamboo diaper, closed that. Took out a fresh L Loveybums diaper. Put that over the bamboo diaper, wool cover + wool shortie. Thinner, but definitely tighter.

Looks like this from baby’s bottom:

bamboo diaper with bamboo insert -> cotton cover -> wool cover -> wool shortie

The wool is supposed to absorb the extra fluid so I should really let it do its job than overstuffing the diapers which causes a huge gap between skin and diaper, and that is exactly where it leaks.

Let’s see how it goes in the morning.

I guess cloth diapering, especially with new diapers, takes some trial and error in getting the right diapering configuration. And during the trial, remember to get your baby to sleep on a rubber mat or there’ll be lots of laundry to do.

I’ve decided to move Wolf to using cloth+wool during the day so I needed to order some larger sizes for him and we needed a safer leak-proof solution for the night and ordered an organic wool shortie for him.

Here is Twig & Vine’s Organic Bamboo and Hemp Fitted Diaper. We ordered 4, 1 in L (which incidentally is XL under Loveybums’ sizing chart – with this in mind, always check the measurements rather than rely on weight or assume all sizes are the same) and 3 in M.

And we also ordered an organic O-Wool wool shortie (aka soaker) from blue cloud. Love that it is lanolized and ready to use.

I couldn’t resist blue cloud‘s heavenly organic hemp blankie for Kitten. After a day of mulling and polling my friends, I chose the natural over the wine.

I had such a wonderful buying experience from both sellers.

They were kind enough to answer my many questions (I can be quite long-winded – they were very patient and nice about it – a smiley face goes a long way). Both took the time to help me check shipping rates and offered the most cost-savings option before I ordered, which is important for us international buyers (as I type this, the USD is about 1.5x the Singapore dollar). Most importantly, they were very cheery and sweet and so lovely to deal with. They have a customer for life in me.

And we just had a leak. A big one. A small puddle and half a soaked pj later, I changed the perplexed toddler (who confessed to peeing several times) to a L diaper and had a revelation:

The XL simply did not fit the XL wool cover. The L fitted it perfectly.

The leak had seeped out the side where it was peeking, although the soaked through hemp soaker and diaper technically should have contained it if the wool had covered it properly.

Now, Kitten is using a L-L combo and the cover covers all quite comfortably so I suspect either the XL was accidentally shrunk or Wolf’s simply grown.

The solution: forget wool covers, just buy a wool shortie (underwear with cuffs) for your wool+diaper solution. That will solve the diaper peekaboo problem (and if I find a diaper without too-tight elastic on the back and thighs, I’ll get them all).

I’ll have to admit I am a little addicted already. I found myself scouring Loveybums if they have any seconds I could get and was relentlessly clicking through Whoopeekiddies to look at the BumGeniuses (and very very heavenly hemp wash cloths, supposedly cloth wipes but I stuff them in my cleavage to soak up excess sweat when I carry Kitten and emergency burp cloth).

Then I realised this was the perfect time to try different diapers. I had enough diapers for 1.5 days really, and seriously needed another night cloth diaper for Wolf because it was his diaper that I had to wash and dry daily so he could wear it again the next night and another wool cover because his Loveybums XL cloth diaper seems to keep peeking out of the XL wool cover. Not good cos it caused one leak already.

I found some wonderfully soft bamboo hemp diapers from the awesome Twig & Vine I plan to order soon when some money comes in. I like that the elastic at the back and legs are not sewed as crunched up tight as the ones on the Loveybums ones which cause Kitten to have red marks in those areas when I carry her in the Ergo. Don’t the Twig & Vine diapers look heavenly?

That brings my count to:

1 NB/S organic cloth diaper (which might retire soon)
5 M organic cloth diaper
2 L organic cloth diaper
1 XL organic cloth diaper
4 organic wool cover (1 for each size)
7 BumGeniuses
To order another 4 bamboo hemp diapers (still deciding on the sizes but most likely 2L + 2XL)

Total: 20 diapers for 2 kids (half the stash is shareable)

That should tide us through washing once in 2 days + air drying the laundry rather than using the dryer every day. Our electricity bill has gone up $50 since we started cloth diapering but we save that $50 too on not buying disposables.

Hemp is tons more absorbent than cotton and bamboo is somewhere in between. I was thrilled that a single insert (hemp or bamboo+cotton) is sufficient stuffing for the kids overnight and by day they don’t need any stuffing.

Why organic? I figure if we go cloth, we go all the way. It is better for the planet and for our kids. The process of making cotton and even bamboo fabrics is pretty darned harmful to our planet, so supporting the organic textiles industry is the way to go.

DH says that cloth diapering and laundering indulge my OCD tendency to clean. Well, it should feel good to be good to our children and our planet, no?

I realised why Wolf’s cloth diapers sometimes leak. He often sleeps in strange positions.

The hemp insert is pretty thick so it causes a gap between his legs and diaper. Hence when moving, the gap increases and causes leakage especially when he is peeing at that moment.

This time it was a side leak.

I made no fuss. Quickly changed him and put 2 towels in the wet spots and am nursing him back to sleep now.

Yes it is possible.

Kitten got a recurrent rash which came back after her all night pee party using the BumGenius + Hemp Doubler + Loveybums fleece liner.

I was pleased to find out online that our California Baby Diaper Rash Cream can be used with cloth.

Hope that helps. We’ll find out tomorrow morning.

No leaks last night!

I learnt that boys need more padding in the front; girls centre. Yes, logical but to a sleep deprived mother, sometimes it is easier to have it all written down.

Wolf’s night diapering solution:

1 Loveybums XL organic cloth diaper
1 hemp soaker doubled in the front
1 Loveybums XL organic wool cover

Kitten’s night diapering solution:

1 Loveybums organic fleece top layer (taken from the L diaper)
1 hemp soaker laid flat
1 BumGenius organic all-in-one diaper

Yay!

And more diapers are on the way so Wolf can go cloth during the day too.

This morning Wolf woke me around 6 telling me he was wet. He’d slept on his tummy and there was leakage from the front because I keep the diaper and cover loose for more air.

He didn’t sleep again till 9ish and I was beat, having fallen asleep only at 3. Thankfully he dozed for another 2 hours but during which Kitten woke and kept me up too.

She’d also leaked from the back of her BumGenius which had the Loveybums fleece layer inside it. The diaper was completely soaked through so I knew she needed more padding.

Tonight she wears the same combo but with the hemp soaker inside. I tried the L Loveybums diaper with soaker and the Loveybums wool cover or BumGenius over it but there was just too much gap between the leg and diaper that I abandoned both ideas.

Wolf wears the same Loveybums diaper, hemp soaker, and wool cover over. This time I flattened the whole soaker instead of folding it. Let’s see how that goes.

Meanwhile, I seriously need sleep… Can feel my system shutting down…

Remarkably, Kitten can wear her brother’s L sized Loveybums diaper already. The NB/S barely fits her and M just right. L is comfy with room to grow…

I put her next to Wolf this morning and noted with amazement that they have the same waist size! So I wrote back to Pam, who had kindly written back last night, that I would go for the large size instead.

As for last night’s experiment, the BumGenius diaper (it is a diaper with 2 layers of organic cotton inside covered with a cover with organic cotton on one side and a PUL – polyurethane laminate – cover – breathable – on the outside) held it in and there was only a slight leakage where the Loveybums diaper was not covered by the BumGenius.

Tonight I am trying her with the Loveybums organic fleece cover and the BumGenius and see how that goes.

She went cloth all day today – 3 all day, and also cloth (albeit with PUL) at night. Wolf had to go disposable during the day since I only have one L and one XL. But we’ll try day too when the XLs come. I’d use the BumGeniuses but they take 2 days to dry. I don’t want to shorten their lifespan by putting them in the dryer.

Which is one reason why I prefer the Loveybums – I can blast them with hot water and the smell is gone, wash them and dry them and have them ready for use in 2 hours. But the BumGeniuses, as pretty and leak-proof as they are, take 2 days to be usable again.